1) you aren’t compassionate sufficient 2) you’re judgmental 3) you’re controlling 4) insert normal individual reaction to abused/used/manipulated/etc that is being. and spin it in a light that is negative disordered will usually make use of your psychological reactivity with their provocation against you. It’s a catch 22, as well as the only option would be to leave the overall game. مطالعه بیشتر